Life!

Life!.. Sometime i wonder what is exactly life. Life can be ordinary, exciting, tough or even noting.. To me, life is never be easy. Ever since i was born, i always hope for better. I know the life cycle - Born, Old, Sick and Death..

This is just a cycle.. However, this cycle may seem to be short. To me is not easy. Everyone has different life or destiny. Where you are born, who you shall meet and what circumstances or incident that you will meet too..

Right now, i wonder, am i meeting the right one or this is just another test for me to learn.. I am learning now..

From the day, i born or i know what is life cycle when i turned to the age of 5. I know life can never be easy.. Easy or not, yes is depended on individuals.

To me, i do not know what is ahead of me. All i know that i can rely no one.. I can trust no one.. Only me, i can rely on myself. I must be strong and able to overcome all circumstances. Since i need to face all this, i know that i can overcome it. No matter what, bcoz i still young and healthy. I am glad that i have all that and i will never give up to my dreams and goal. Yes.. I am directionless now. This does not mean that i will give up.. No way. This is me. I know i can do it. I can overcome all obstacles..

Jia You.. PS.. =)

Absolute Boyfriend...

This is Japanese Drama Show. I like this show alot.. Night is a perfect guy for all ladies who hope to have.. Though Night is not a Real Man, his sincerity moves every ladies' heart including Riiko, a simple nice lady.

What do I learn from BaZi???

Recently, i am doing self learning of BaZi. You may curious what is exactly a bazi is ... Yes initially, i am not sure at all.. As i read through a few books and some case studies from the forum, i tend to have deeper understanding of what exactly it is.. It is just a simple 4 pillars chart with 8 chinese characters. However, a simple 4 pillars chart can up to 8 pillars chart if your knowledge is beyond not just only 4 pillars chart.

For most beginners or even expertises can only decode up till 4 to 6 pillars. So for me, of course i can only stick to 4 pillars chart. The path of learning may not be easy because i have so many question marks when i read through and no one to turn to except some forum experts... While i am still in process of learning.. Learning is non stop for me.. =)

Though it is just a simple 4 pillars chart, it reveals the personalilty of the person, the past and future of the person. And of course, his/her grandparents, parents, marriage and children. Yes, you may have doubts over this simple 4 pillars chart, why a simple 4 pillars chart can reveal so much but come to think why not you treat it as an experiment. Does all the definitions from the simple 4 pillars chart are all come true? Perhaps for some, they are just coincidence but you can just treat it as a game.. Another Yes, there are soo many people in this world.. Of course, there are many people with same birthdate, so does that mean everyone will have the same destiny? The answer is YOU, whether you choose to believe or not.. Because your destiny is still up to your hand to control and create. Nevertheless, believe or not, it is a stepping stone for you to gain more understanding of your life and your future.. A way to guide you.. But you can guide yourself to get what you want too.

Remember, a destiny is up to your choice but not blindly follow what a bazi told you..

人生！

什么是人生？？？ 有些人的人生是精彩的，而有些人的人生是平淡无奇的。如果让你选择，你会选哪一个？

精彩的人生可以是像玩过山车, 时高时低! 这种人生往往让人又爱又恨. 因为要在短短人生里找到人生目标谈何容易. 那么平淡的人生又如何呢？

往往人们选择了精彩的人生，可是到最后却选择了平平淡淡的人生。这又代表了什么？

精彩的人生可以是精精彩彩的，也可以是悲悲惨惨的。但很多时候这种人生却可以让人从中学习了成长与珍惜。

平淡的人生虽然没有经历过人生的高与低潮，但也是很多人向往着的人生。只因这种人生可以让人过着无忧无虑的生活。

那么重新让你再选择，你会选哪一个？