Come across this paragraph and I found it very meaningful.
失去才能领略更多美丽，在我们拥有的时候，总是害怕着失去，但也许必须藉由失去，我们才能够不再画地自限，反而拥有更多美丽的经验.
The beauty of losing it. When we had it, we tended to worry about losing it. However, if we lost it, we would not limit ourselves from having more beautiful experiences.
The beauty of losing it. When we had it, we tended to worry about losing it. However, if we lost it, we would not limit ourselves from having more beautiful experiences.
这叫做积极性的自我安慰
This is called self-consoled in positive way.
失恋了，斤斤计较你辜负我多少我有哪些不甘，是人之常情，但分手自有分手的理由，何不在痛过之后自我安慰：以前老是担心会分手，现在没什么好担心了，以前总在抱怨他对我不好，现在我再也不必受到不好的对待。
失恋了，斤斤计较你辜负我多少我有哪些不甘，是人之常情，但分手自有分手的理由，何不在痛过之后自我安慰：以前老是担心会分手，现在没什么好担心了，以前总在抱怨他对我不好，现在我再也不必受到不好的对待。
以前只能守着一株草，现在到处都可能有芳草.
When there was a breakup, I used to complaint about how you
disappointed or failed me in this relationship. However, every breakup has a
reason behind it. Instead of keep complaining, why not get over it after a good
cry, and free from all the worries and ill-treatments in previous relationship.
Used to watch over a tree, I have a forest for me to choose now.
如果不要只着眼于一时的失去，失恋，失业，失婚，都可能带来更宽阔的视野。只要不失去生命，我们依然大有可为。
如果不要只着眼于一时的失去，失恋，失业，失婚，都可能带来更宽阔的视野。只要不失去生命，我们依然大有可为。
Every disappointment in relationship, job,
marriage and etc, can widen our vision over many things. We can still do
anything if we do not lose our life.
我一直相信一句老话：如果老天爷为你关一扇门，一定会为你开一扇窗。
There is always a window open for you if a door is closed.
虽然，大部分的时候，从门到窗的距离，可能超乎想像的长，我们还是要找到那条路，从门，走到窗口那边，才会看到一大片蓝天.
蓝天，原本就在，只是我们一直把自己关在房子里.
Though there is a distance from door to window, we can walk to
the windows when the blue sky is always there for us unless we lock ourselves
in the room.
